Board Thread:Animal Jam Talk/@comment-34945646-20180928085428

Disclaimer: This is for specifically does mention things that are for people who are in the transgender umbrella of the Animal Jam community (but isn't exclusive to just that community). I will be deleting anything that targets anyone that is in said community/trying to say things that harass transgender people for expressing how they are and how the actions of these people who im warning people of are bad, not'' to censor people of their thoughts but f'or the wellbeing and sake of other trans people. '''

I dont care if you think me both protecting other's mental health and in general just dodging drama is considered "sensitive", being upset that you cant express it specifically on this thread, instead of chosing to just speak about it in a different thread that specifically is made by you or others about your side of feelings or allows you to speak aswell without hurting people IS under the umbrella of being "triggered" and "sensitive". (although i dont use that wording myself unless towards people who also use that terminology.)

ANYWAY ONTO THE HOT TEA THIS ONES A BIG LONG ONE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Alright so the user Sassy3rdeye, whomst ill just call sad mop from now is many, many things.

Summary/TL;DR: Sassy3rdeye is a item begger that manipulates you into believing lies with sympathy to help her get your items and will harrass you if they think youre "overreacting" when asking her to not do things that upset people despise them acting very overreactingly for being asked for little things like basic respect and will use info youve shared with them that was either dug up by them or bring past traumatic situations and your own personal things like relationship abuse, your interests, your depression, hobbies and will literally call you a "subordinate" and "entertainment slave".

''ALRIGHT. THIS IS GONNA BE LONNNGG. long long long. I CANNOT SKIM IT OF ANY INFO DUE TO HOW ALOT OF IT IS IMPORTANT! ''

Another disclaimer. Yes, I should of left the situation sooner as it got worse but they were my friend. a genuine, close friend. I wanted to hold onto friendship- and despise their words making me puke I kept trying to believe they'd understand their words were wrong and stop being so awful towards me.

Here's all the clear points:

- After I tell her and her friends to stop calling my friend a gal, corrects herself to say dude and when i tell them that my friend is not comfortable with being addressed as a dude either and tell her that she has been doing the same thing to me [both calling me both 'gendered' terms that i expressed extreme discomfort to and then dismissing it] and told her i was ok with her doing it to me but not to my friends, she explodes in overreaction, in basically its 'i dont care about how you were born, its just a game and you shouldn't hold and respect your friends so highly now im gonna insult how people who are actually 'in the middle gender' cant have children and i can just to prove my point and then call you the sensitive one for just asking to not be called 2 words"

- Both her and her friend [mezzynine?] dug up and badgered me about my ex girlfriend, which said ex both abused me heavily [which i also reacted in abusive behaviour back, which i strictly have to say. if you know the ex im referring to- dont believe their words. theyve been covering up their behaviour and victim blaming me.] and made fun of me and used the ex girlfriend situation towards me saying I deserved such things and when I told them to quit it, they said they were just having "fun". They knew that this was a traumatic memory for me and very much enjoyed that info.

- Both brought up a special interest/hyperfixation I have and made fun of it, purposefully knowing that I'm autistic and that it would bring me down heavily

- Told me that she 'cared for me' but that i was 'sensitively too serious' about other's wellbeings aswell as too serious about my own wellfare and that she didn't care for my feelings, even when i was happy, and basically admitted that she used me kind of as a "friend puppet".

- Hypocritically admitted she didn't care for transgender people, but went to complain that she was heavily opressed for being a lesbian. Both to make it about herself and her problems while expressing that she didn't care for others wellbeings even if they were in the same situation as they were on a different level, that level being gender. [My respect goes to lesbians, but not her and not anyone who doesn't treat people properly just cause of one thing- unless the person theyre mistreating likes trump or thinks cops arent killing people, or just in general thinks killing people is ok. Anyway- being a lesbian/gay/bi but saying you dont respect trans people is a big no-no, lgbt is literally a liberal community and we wouldn't have our rights now if it werent for the trans women who started the rights riots of stonewall]

- Will harass you, calling you 'inferior', 'subordinate', 'slave', 'maid', etc. and will jokingly treat you as a slave as to sadistically 'entertain' herself, and friends aswell if they are present. Will also do joking roleplay actions in detail of abusive things. [stepping on people, shoving sharp objects into people to make them 'work harder' to entertain her] etc. if you try to tell her that her actions are extremely overreactive for being asked to not do a certain things that upsets you, especially if it's a very very little thing.

- In general doesn't think respect or friends are real on video games [more specifically, thinks 'respect is too serious for a game where im a wolf with high heels', so, if you ask her to do something small cause it hurts you, even if it means stopping her from saying something small as something like "pickles"- expect her to make fun of you and to try excuse it by saying she's "sassy".

- Begs for rare items to a point of scamming and begging for art or will manipulate people into giving them items. Mainly art. They asked me multiple times for art that either wasnt for trade or was asking for way higher prices than she offered [pay your artists properly for their work!!!!!!!] When I confronted her about the art begging situation and accused her of being a begger very lightly, but in general [at the time I didn't have the exact info to claim this rightfully other than the art stuff, so is why i say accusing], she said that she "wasnt begging" all cause she's gifted me a parasol once and that if I gave her the art she was asking for it'd be fair, despise me telling her many, many times i wasn't comfortable gifting her art at all

- To add onto the begging for items situation; I contacted their ex-friend, Kitty and another person who was between that situation, and I was told that Sassy had lied about her promising kitty a headdress, and the situation she was speaking of where she needed to send a headdress to Kitty was extremely false and that Sassy was asking me to give her my headdress secretly, knowing i was a very "kind, giving and sweet person" [quoting sassy's own words from past convos] and would think that what she was speaking of was true. [The situation that was lied about was basically Sassy asked Kitty to either decide between Sassy, or a DPHD. Sassy said Kitty picked the HD, but kitty has said otherwise saying that Sassy harassed Kitty about lies that sassy and her friend panda made up [and i was shown photo proof that these lies were false and that she was framed and that she was most likely trying to get items out of me for rarity gain.]

also, to mention, im not gonna show evidence related to the kitty incident. as much as i like sharing evidence to my claims as the next person i cant accomodate that cause sassy shared personal info related to kitty in the situation in means of threatening, and its both a huge part of the whole conversation but also something id have to censor due to privacy laws so it'd ruin the point of "proving something".

Soooo yeah. Lots of stuff to unpack here. I would of made it WAY shorter but it's too hard to pack all the heavy info into a small thing.

This person is not healthy to be around, even if you're not specifically a lgbt person, etc. 'They do not care for you. '

BE SAFE EVERY1!! Lots of love goes out to every one of you! 