Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-35324176-20190204235929/@comment-36491620-20190210125259

Zeforum wrote: I am not a meanie, lemme just say my perspective of Loveless' paragraph.

Yes, we were friends on AJ and they told me they had a disorder and all of that. Yeah, that all happened. For some reason I guess Loveless throught I was busy? I made time for her anyways. If your reading this, you could have told me that I talk to you less or something. I didnt know you really wanted to hang out with me. I just thought it was ya know, a jammer to jammer, buddy to buddy convo every day. I have that happen often with my buddies, and a lot dont really think its a close friendship. I noticed we stopped hanging out after awhile, I stopped seeing your user on my buddy list. I looked it up and you unbuddied me? I tried buddying you back but it seems like you have been denying them. I jagged you as well. I was getting a lot of jags from you, I replied to each of them, dont you deny that at all. When you were on, I went into your den. You never came. So I actually cared, not a trator and not a lier Especially if Loveless didn't know Zef IRL. You can't expect a complete stranger to bond with you over a few hours at most of trading. If you guys weren't close anyway, then just form some type of closure before unbuddying somebody without notifying them.

I had a similar experience: This jammer, Hattie**** (A bunch of numbers at the end) demanded to know my Gmail and spent literally hours filling me in on her life. At first, I gritted my teeth and bared it, but after a while it got unbearable. I honestly should have told her pixel-to-pixel (XD) but instead, I discussed the matter with one of my closest buddies who also had the misfortune of listening to Hattie.

What was meant to be a private convo between me and my close buddy quickly became risky as Hattie was spontaneously bursting into my den then leaving quickly. Then, she blew up on both of us.

I do feel guilty, but I'm not exactly sorry.

Anyway, my point: Zef's a good bean c: