User blog comment:Lillithebird/Problems I have/@comment-38023415-20190113173530

I think in growth we all go through hardships, and find some things that we don't like, or do like, some things we are good at and things we aren't. Don't feel guilty the things you did then that you feel guilty about lead to learning and experience. I think that because you have these "problems" (which are not problems by the way, you don't have any control on what you are born with, and either way, you are fine) it'll give you better connection to other people as you grow older, for example, when I was 12 I got depression, bad. And because I was so young, that lead me to a mental maturity that other people my age didn't have, it was hard, but I got through it, and now, the people who have just started getting it, I was there to help them because of what I knew. You have to look at these things in a different ways, like yes, you are going through this, and yes, you may not understand why YOU have to deal with this, but, once you have kids, you'll be able to relate and connect to them more because you know how they felt.